Thursday, April 1, 2010

Not your fault, right?

It's been really nice here the past couple of days; sunny, with temperatures in the 80's.

It's also spring break. Consequently, there have been lots of kids outside playing.

Most of them are great; they're old enough to know that the street is primarily for cars and vehicles and that if a car is coming they need to get out of the way and onto the sidewalk. There are some kids, however, that are new to the street and who are far too young to be outside with inadequate supervision.

Yesterday I saw a car slam on it's brakes and honk at one of them when they ran out in front of the driver. Today, when I came home from the grocery store, there were half a dozen kids, all under the age of 4 or 5, in the street in front of my driveway and in the driveway itself. I came to a complete stop in front of them, thinking that they'd see me and get out of the street, but they didn't. They just carried on playing. In the end my son had to tell them to get out of the road and out of the driveway.

Nothing frightens me more than a small child who has no concept of how dangerous it is to play in traffic left alone on the street. They're unpredictable, and should one of them get hit by a car, you can bet your arse that it would be the driver's fault. It would be the driver's fault, the gub'mints fault for not putting up enough signs, the construction workers fault for using concrete and asphalt on the street...it would be anyone's fault but the parents.

Hubs and I have been looking at houses in the area. With every summer that passes, living off base and away from a neighborhood looks more and more appealing.

2 comments:

Tom said...

Our children are the most precious gift we have. Why would anyone allow a child outside of their care when so young?

Ninjamedic said...

Tom: I think that a big part of the problem is that we live on a military installation that people think is 'safe'. They get lulled into a false sense of security and let their children do things that people living off-base might balk at. However, the streets and roads are for vehicles, and little children should be taught that when there's a car coming you get out of the way. Period.